“Jack and Jill went up the hill
To fetch a pail of water.
Jack fell down and broke his crown
And Jill came tumbling after.
Jack blamed Jill,
Jill blamed Jack,
And each vowed they would
Never come back.”
What is the secret of good couples communication? What one simple skill tremendously improves the ability of couples to discuss difficult subjects?
It is the skill of non-defensive responding. What do I mean by this?
Let me give you an example. Imagine a hypothetical couple Jack and Jill. Jack comes home from work and is tired and hungry. Jill got home from her job one hour before. Sh…Read the Entire Post >